Something which vexes me much of the time at the moment is what I actually want/need from life. I don't want to reproduce/have kids, I don't desperately want to get married (I don't want to be totally alone either) and I don't want a big career (I work to live and hope the things I enjoy can make money at some point).
This is a problem for me after recovering from a depressive setback quite well. What am I actually aiming for? I think I've spent too much time assuming I wanted what everyone else does.