So, my girlfriend and I were talking about my mother giving me daily phone calls. being fiercely independent, I'm not exactly a fan. but, my girlfriend tried to explain that that is her way of coping. I came back at her, saying that I dont need to be coddled like a three year old, and im not in high school anymore. then, she said "not so"....in reference to the diapers.
Now, my girlfriend being...well her, this was in no way a mean spirited comment....that being said, I dont exactly know how I feel
She tried to reduce infantilism, in my case, to my past abuse as a child and a coping mechanism; something that could be dealt with in therapy.
She's the most supportive girl ever....just not with this. She doesnt know how this is going to impact us in the long run (like, married and have kids long run)
I really want this to be behind us. While I know that I made a good decision in telling her about the diapers...I'm regretting it. I know she was only trying to help. She feels that talking about it will "help me work through it".
I dont like talking about it. Advice?