Because my wife doesn't know about my diaper wearing, I have to be super discreet about it. I am unable to order the really good diapers online because of it. I know store bought diapers are mediocre at best, but can you recommend the best ones to buy? I definitely prefer plastic back with tape....no cloth-like ones. I would teally like to wear to work too so it would be great if they were somewhat discreet.