Over the past couple of months, I've spent a lot of time on this forum reading the threads and enjoying seeing some fantastic conversation in the people of this community. I've seen people here for support, fun, knowledge and sharing. And I've even enjoyed occasionally contributing to some threads.
I'm obviously here because I like to wear diapers. My girlfriend, however, is not a fan of it at all. Every time I bring it up, she gets really short with me. Every time I wear around her, she gets mad. She just can't bring herself to accept my love for diapers, because it really bothers her. However, she tells me that she really wishes that she could accept it and participate in it for me, because she wants to be there for me and be a good girlfriend. She hopes that in time she can learn to control it and be ok with me and diapers, but as of right now she does not accept it and wants nothing to do with it.
Having seen other people come onto this forum (most notably that Gina lady who came on posting about her son), I brought it up to my girlfriend that maybe she could come here and post and talk to other people about diapers so she can see I'm not doing anything wrong or weird or whatever it is she thinks. Her original response was, "I don't want you to think that just because other people tell me to be ok with it that I'm suddenly going to be ok with it". Which is valid and obviously she is going to feel how she feels. But, a few days ago she mentioned that in time maybe she could come on by herself or with me and check out the site. Which is obviously good news for me as I love this girl very much and clearly she's trying to find it within herself to be there for me.
But I do worry somewhat about bringing her here. I'm not an adult baby or sissy or anything (my user name is MaxiPad because as I put in my intro thread, I used to wear panties and thick maxi pads to simulate diapers until I could buy the real things online). I just simply love and get turned on by diapers. I have asked her occasionally if we could play with binkies or drink from baby bottles, and she used to be ok with it but not lately. So my concern is if she comes on here and sees people posting about adult babies and being a sissy, she might totally get the wrong impression about why I like diapers. And that would be completely counter productive.
So what's the right move? I want her to support me and clearly she does too, so I want to make the right moves because trying to get diapers involved has been a very frustrating process. I haven't forced it on her, I've worn twice around her since July. But I'd like to move the process along somehow.