Something I really hate is when someone looks down on a good person. Not just people that we think are good or whatever, but I mean a seriously good person. Such as a boyfriend who treats his girlfriend well. That is the situation I am in. My friends and my mother all look down on him. Like he beats me or something, like he never takes me out and he ignores me. When that is not true. In fact, he treats me so well that I have agreed to marry him in secrecy (so far, we will tell everyone before we actually start planning the wedding. but the engagement story is for a different time!)
He takes me on dates constantly, he accepts me in every way, he is very nice to me, he stands up for me. I do not talk bad to my mother or my friends about him, but they still think he is bad. They are convinced that we never go anywhere and that he is stingy with money, when in fact we are saving it for our lives together in the future and what we do buy, we buy together.
I swear, this is one of the most frustrating things in the world!!!! Anyone else experience anything like this? Or even anyone who has been on the retrieving end of the insults?
I don't know what to do, I hate when they talk bad about him so much, but no matter what I say they keep on.