Many a thread are there that discuss the diaper change. It is one of the highlights for many *B's and DL's. Far less discussed however, is the diaper check. When someone else makes a point of taking a look and determining whether or not you're wet or dirty.
As an AB, I can't think of much that makes you feel small and helpless like the knowledge that another human being doesn't expect you to be able to decide on your own whether you need a new diaper or not. Partly for this, it ranks high on my personal fantasies to be playing without a care in the world, oblivious to the presence of Mommy/Daddy/Whoever coming over to check if I've made a mess.
How do other members feel about the idea of diaper checks? Is there anyone who is 24/7 or incontinent, who actually has someone doing this? Is the idea of another keeping track of your diaper's condition something you're not comfortable with?