The title basically says it all, and I really don't know how to feel about this.
My girlfriend is really open-minded and said to me last night that she would like to meet another ab/dl. At first I thought she was joking, but then she pushed the subject and said she was very interested in the prospect..
I myself wouldn't mind meeting another adult baby, but there's a few things that actually worry me quite a bit; you never know what a person is truly like until you meet them face-to-face, I would never want to put either of us at risk while meeting some sketchy individual.
I'm also worried about the subject of diaper changes. My girlfriend said that she wouldn't ask to change their diapers, but if she was asked then she probably would change them. The baby-side of me sees no problems to this, a diaper change is a diaper change, but the adult side of me still sees this as an intimate act. I don't know what to do about that, half of me is fine with the concept and the other half is on the edge about it.
What do you guys think? I do want to meet with another ab/dl. I was thinking that a first meetup should happen in a public place and diapers probably shouldn't be involved during the first meet. I'm kinda still on the edge about this and of course it's all just speculation at this point.