The title says it - can you be a Diaper Lover without wearing diapers?
Many of us have actually 'loved' the idea of wearing diapers ever since we were kids. One cannot forget the tingles (and awkwardness) when a diaper ad comes up on TV, or when we see our little cousin or neighbour still in diapers. Then when we discover DLism (or ABDLism), we get a perspective shift and suddenly it is okay to wear diapers. We don't hurt anyone by wearing. Or do we?
On the surface it seems that you CAN be a DL without actually physically wearing a diaper. But it seems so... odd. Would I violate some natural order? Would I be ill-regarded by my own community (DL community that is). And would I lose my DL identity if I stop it?
I have realised that there is more to DLism (and ABDLism) then just wearing diapers. Yes, it is an integral part, yes, but theres more.
So I want to know what do you guys think - can you be a DL without actually wearing diapers?