...reveal or hide your AB/DL side from your children? This thread kind of rides on the coattails of Kovalchuk's thread about having an AB/DL mate, but the thought popped into my head while replying to his poll. What do you feel would be the proper course to take as parents, keep it hidden or reveal it to them? If you feel it should be revealed, when should it be done? Early as possible in their lives? Wait until teen years? Wait until they're about to go out on their own? Even if you explain to them about what you are early on, would you feel comfortable doing your particular AB/DL *thing* in their presense? Honestly, I need to give this question a bit more thought myself before I can answer.