Ok i had my sister come over my flat today so she can look around and all that. i l still had not put my nappies away to hide them as i did not want her to know. and she see them out this is the funny thing about it she did not even ask me about them. she just asked about the flat how am i getting on. i know my partner sister know about my wearing nappies and that i think she is okay with it . Who knows in you'r family and friends?