What I mean is do you think people can still need diapers and not have any bladder or bowel problems?
My husband says I need my diapers and my mother has told me she knows it's something I need to do and now she told me last weekend she didn't understand I needed them back then. Now she knows it's part of who I am so she has gotten used to it. I had no idea she was opposed to me wearing them or else she would have threatened to kick me out of her home if I didn't stop and she would have maybe tried to shame me to quit or humiliate me with them to get me to stop but she never did those things so I thought she accepted it despite the fact she didn't like it. Now when I think about it, all the signs were there all along about her not approving it like making comments about me wearing them, telling me she loathes the whole diaper thing and it makes her want to throw up when we talk about it or when she thinks about it, telling me until the diapers are out of her home, I will keep seeing my shrink, not being happy about me bring diapers to Mexico when she found them in my suitcase, telling me she would have been so embarrassed if I brought them to Europe with us, and also telling me I have an addictive personality and I need to wear a pad and me wearing diapers wouldn't be good for my son. Now since living together again, she has not said anything about it. she has ignored it and acted like she doesn't notice a thing and she doesn't slap my butt anymore like she used to. I don't know if that means she approves it. She just told me she didn't understand it then it was something I needed so she was so opposed to it. So why did she tell me back then "I know it's something you need to do" if she didn't know then it was what I needed? My mother often contradicts herself.
So I have been thinking is it possible you need your diapers emotionally or psychologically? Or do you still see it as you don't need them because you don't have a medical condition for you to need them.
What about for convenience? Still need them?
What about if there be no access to the bathrooms? Still need them?
I am thinking "need" is just a subjective word. When I think of needing diapers, I think of incontinence and bladder problems or people with bowel problems. I don't think of urges to wear them or wearing them to relax or to be happy or out of convenience, or to have sexual pleasure or to get turned on for sex so the sex be good and you enjoy it, or something you like doing and if you never do it, it just causes you distress and depression and other issues. I only think of incontinence and other forms of it.