So, I'm new here. My boyfriend recently confided in me that he has a diaper fetish, and recommended that I check out this site for further info. I’ve asked a ton of questions and tried to familiarize myself with the fetish, but as it varies so greatly among various DLs, I’ve almost found it more confusing to read about others. He told me that here he’s seen posts from people who are in my position right now, trying to understand a fetish that is, in some ways, difficult to fully comprehend when you don’t share the fantasy. I’ve had somewhat of a traumatizing sexual experience in the past, and therefore am particularly frightened by sex in general. However, I am not closed-minded – I’m as curious as I am irrationally nervous (yes, I understand that it's irrational). Regardless, I am willing and eager to accommodate his desires.
His fetish is something that he’s kept secret, and I can’t talk to anybody about it except him. And he’s been great, but now that I’m involved I’d like to meet others who’ve gone through this like I have, so it feels real. Right now it’s just something that happens “behind closed doors” (which I quote, because he wears and uses his diapers in public from time to time.) In your experience, was there an adjustment period for whoever you told? I’m curious how other couples have taken this on, and about the fetish in general.
He said it took him only until recently – he’s 25 yrs. old – to truly get comfortable with his fetish. I want to be as comfortable with it as he is, but in a fraction of that time.
Info! Advice! Anything! I’m all ears. ☺