Do you think we are born with the desire to wear or does something in the environment cause us to get it or is it both?
I have heard we are born with it but I didn't start getting diaper desires until I was nine years old. But I am thinking we could be born with it but something in the environment will have to trigger it to make us get the desire. Some of us have always been into it since being potty trained and some others get into it in their teens or adulthood or somewhere in their childhood. Everyone with it is different. Is it possible to be born with it but not ever get it because nothing in your life has ever triggered it to cause you to start? Some people will say they "discovered it" when they started rather than develop it.