Ok, so I had horrid day at work, but discovered the nappies I ordered on the net had arrived today, so, to relax, I just tried wearing for the first time in a long while...
Honestly nothing; no comfort or security, no arousal, nothing at all. In fact, the only thing I felt was hot and uncomfortable. This happened last time I tried to get into wearing myself; It's a little exciting at first, but then It doesn't do anything for me. This time it did nothing at all from the very beginning. I already know I'm not AB, but now I wonder if this means I'm not DL at all -by the definition of the term anyway.
I know I find the sight of a woman wearing nothing but a nappy quite arousing, and most ABs when they're being as cute as cute can be makes me wana give em a hug an not let go. And I know if I ever got into a relationship with a woman who was incontinent she'd probably hate me for being turned on by the fact that she has to wear nappies because of her condition (I know that's a horribly insensitive thing to say. I apologise in advance to any IC people who read that).
But, wearing myself, doesn't do much for me at all.
So here's what I'm wondering, does liking it on others, but feeling "meh" about it on myself still make me DL? Or is there another terminology for it? And I also wonder, how many -if any- other people feel the same way.