So I guess i'm looking for some opinions of other people. I know everybody chooses to live their own way and all that jazz but this is something that I have never really talked about with anyone before.
I have a tendency to shy away from dating and or persueing relationships at the moment because I have wanted to wait until I was financially secure in an extry level career position. Because of this I found that I never seeked relationships in college or now in the period of post college while seeking career opportunities.
On one hand I find that I get grief from my dad who says I should go out more and blablabla have some fun, this, that, and go have some fun but I guess on the same hand I don't persue it because I guess it doesn't feel comfortable. I personally find it very intimidating to explore the concept of being in a relationship because I am very self concious and feel as though if I look for a relationship I should be able to be some type of provider before I do so.
Idk entering a relationship while being "broke ass" would be very intimidating for me. Do others feel this way too about avoiding social connections due to not feeling financially ready? I know as a whole I can be very timid around people as well but yea I dunno... I have a tendency to experience a lot of anxiety when it comes to personal appearance.