Back in the 1970s, my mom was engaged to a guy. She loved him but he wanted to hold her back and he hated that she wanted to be with her friends and how she was growing up. When they first me, my mother was very naive and as she got less naive, he get pissed about it. He just wanted to protect her and all and my mom says he wanted her to be like a little girl and be all innocent. I realize now that maybe he was a daddy and the reason why he was so attracted to her was because of her naivety and innocence and that is something that daddies want.
My husband told me if I told my mother that maybe her ex fiancee was a daddy because he liked her being innocent and naive and would get pissed when she was getting less naive because she wouldn't be like a little girl anymore, she would figure out my relationship with my husband. She would then know I am my husband's little girl and he is my daddy and that be so embarrassing.
Is this true, would my mother really figure out our relationship if I suggested her ex fiancee was maybe a daddy? What do you think?