I am not a lurker...just a busy person. I am 45 years old and have had incontinence issues since I was 5 years old (that I remember).
I bedwet and have daytime fecal incontinence about 30% of the time because I often cannot make it to a washroom in time.
I wear diapers most nights, when I travel and some days when away from washrooms.
I am on this forum to gain insight and I can share my experience if necessary to be helpful to someone.