I am an older woman, 60YRs living in Maine. I have been abdl most of my life and would also call myself a "wettie" girl. I love having accidents. If you would ask my preference it would be to hold till I lose control and wet myself.
I also enjoy being a mommy/ babysitter for women who wish to be either babies or wettie girls too.
I find myself very capable of relaxing other inhibitions and fears of letting themselves go. Perhaps I am too much of a witch. Ahh but that is another story.