My friend is the biggest closet case on the face of the planet. There was a moment of gay chicken where I basically groped and made out with him and yet he still is unwilling to admit that he is gay. He has had a few girlfriends, but that never really lasts. When I tried to confront him about it he got really mad and defencive calling me a faggot and that I was trying to convert him. I know people are aprehencive about coming out. I still technicaly haven't "come out", but if I ever were to be accused of it one on one with a person I would not hide it. Though this is a little extreme , I'm not going to push him into coming out, though some liquid courage might help him ou,. I just want to know if you have ever met people that were so scared of being gay that they turn that insecurity into hatred towards gay people?