Haven't been a part of a AB/DL community for ages, but I did hear some good things here and there, so I thought I might give it a shot.
Me, I'm a 31 year old DL, bondage lover and ageplayer (round about 13/14 when full in character). I'm happily collared to a wonderful older caregiver who I managed to make a believer in the use of diapers within bondage over the years. I'm as much a lover of a good gagging as a diaper (which is saying alot in both directions), but I'm much more forgiving in the way of restraints. I do like mild pain (slaps or spankings), but anything beyond that is a no-no with me.
Also a tabletop gamer, mmorpger (though it isn't my life), RPer (I am often open to do so if asked and given enough info), and can talk to the point of annoying about them if correctly provoked
Anything else you wish to know, just ask. I'm fairly open if you're willing to break the ice with me!