Though not all of us feel this way, many of us can point to a moment in time that we believe solidified us as ABDLs.
For me, I think multiple factors contributed
I have a far reaching memory that allows me to recall a time before i could even walk or talk
I was potty trained very early on and kind of felt like i somehow missed out
I was perhaps jealous of my new born sister
These were all contributing factors that were latent in me, until when during early child hood i was placed on a medication called prednisone (it screws with your mind & bladder)to treat severe asthma. As a result of this I inexplicably lost bladder control three times in a singular week of school in the first grade. In an attempt to self medicate, i grabbed some of my toddler sister's pullups and found that i really loved them. From then on I have been obsessed. Anyways the experience of wetting myself, and my self medication forever imprinted this onto me.
What I ask is, if you have one, what was your trigger moment?