Hey All, I come to you guys as my source of knowledge because I dont know where else to turn and neither does my girlfriend.
She is 20yrs old. Since about 4th grade she has had a problem with randomly, no warning at all, messing herself. Some times a little. Some times a lot. and sometimes she doesn't even notice that she has messed herself for a little while unless she moves the wrong way.
Her doctor could never find anything wrong with her and concluded that nothing is.
Her parents thus think she is doing this all on purpose and continually degrade and harass her about her problem.
The psychologist her parents made her see when she was younger blamed everything on her, said it was all her fault and that no one would ever love someone who was as lazy and immature as she was.
So here is my question to you guys.
Have any of you suffered, heard of, or come across something like this before? Any ideas of what this might be?
She has tried changing her diet, her exercise routines, her day to day life habits. Nothing seems to make any difference for better or worse.
Where she is a beginning AB/ToddlerFur. She doesn't like having all these accidents and no control over them at all really. I hate to see how this brings her down and all I want to do is help her and I feel so powerless.
I am the only one outside of her family and doctor that know about her problem. I try to support her and boost her self-esteem as much as I can, but I really dont know what I can do and it hurts me everytime she has a bad day like today and lets her problem get to her....
I just want to help my girlfriend, but I dunno what else to do....