I'm a girl from England who has a boyfriend who has recently come out to me as an AB/DL. As I want to support him, I decided that the best thing to do would be to find out more about it as well as find ways to make the relationship a better one. I only found out after our <ahem> love life was starting to become difficult in trying to get him interested, etc. He then opened up to me, and I was surprised, despite the hints in him introducing me to a friend of his who is openly AB/DL, and I caught him on this site and wondered what it was all about, even though at the time he was defensive when I asked him what this is all about. I'm glad he has been honest with me, but I am still slightly worried about the whole thing, so after some persuasion from him, I have signed up in order to hopefully get some advice and guidance from the community.