I have been with my wife for almost a year and a half now. We actually dated back in high school but she left me for a friend. Eight or nine years later, I bumped into her after I got out of army. We started talking and soon afterwards began to date.
I told her all of my kinks (abdl, pegging,lingerie) right off the bat to ensure I wasn't about to waste my time with loosing someone down the road. She was cool with it for a while. While we were dating we would go get a hotel room and fool around and she would even baby me some. This was something we used to do every now and then.
Gradually, she got to where she didn't care for it much. Fast forward to past few months and it seems like she outright hates it. If I try to ask her about it, its almost like shes beating around the bush or tries to make up something new every time. Shes even gotten to where she resents the lingerie wearing aswell.
She resents me being abdl and I am beginning to resent her for trying to change me. I told her I was tired of the resentfulness it and we argued for a few minutes. The next day she apologized and said we would talk about it tomorrow (today).
I don't know what to tell her that I already haven't tried to. Any advice?