OK I getting really ticked off how many people just put this in to a fetish, this is just wrong so I want to past my view on the mater.
You can't say ABTBDL is a sexual fetish this is just wrong, it as sexual connections yes almost EVER lifestyle does.
But lets look at a few things below:
Gothic Lifestyle - now this as many sexual parts to it as well as the none sexual parts but people don't go around saying a Goth is just a kink.
Emo - once again as sexual parts to it but people don't say its just a kink.
'Normal' - Well what society that month thinks is normal - every sexual and that's not just a kink.
So why in the 'jelly fish' is been a Teen, Adult, Diaper or Nappy lover any different? well its not this is for many of us a LIFE STYLE.
No wonder many people are getting depressed in the scene and keep questioning there self because people just keep linking it to something seedy and wrong, and sorry but the evidence is plastered all over the web including this site so many of you are so open to just call it as a fetish, but if you ask the long term users and people that have lived with this all there life its whom they are not a sexual fetish that just comes out on a lucky night.
I am sick of seeing this now, this is why I have started IC(The Inner Child) to try and remove the sexual stuff from the lifestyle, not from the bedroom just the lifestyle its self just like Emo, Goth, Chav, Wood cutter and so on.
I also like to state that people on the out side world DON'T accept us for whom we are, only close friends and family might accept us but they wont really want to know about it and if we do find a few that will understand its rare, NEVER let your guard down or you will mostly get hurt, believe me I know this for the past with myself and friends in this scene.