So, I know about there are other threads about what happens when people say... ya know: DIAPER. And how we abdls react to it. But one thing I've noticed is people sometimes seem to avoid using it on here. This isn't some unwritten rule of abdlisum, that I'm just unaware of, is it? Like no diapers in public because it's rude to other people? Or am I just randomly noticing it/People are nervous about saying DIAPER in real life, and avoid it here?