Does this happen to anyone else? I have heard it's very common. I wonder if I may be taking it all too personal because it happens to me all the time it feels like. Does it happen to anyone else all the time?
All over the place, people keep misunderstanding me. They don't seem to read everything I say or read my posts right. They also seem to only focus on what they want to read and ignore the rest. They even say I contradict myself and I think I am either surrounded by idiots or my communication is that poor. Plus they seem to be so black and white and can't see the obvious. Okay if I were to say I forget to eat. Then I say in another post I love sweets. Someone out there will bound to see it as a contradiction and wonder which is it. That is what I deal with online.
I have a hard time understanding how people can read my post and not see it my way or interpret it the way I wrote it. Sometimes I think they must be doing it on purpose or they are that stupid and they can't even read. But I do get defensive and snarky sometimes about it because I get so fed up with it. I even hold in the insults. That is how frustrated I get. I even feel I am going to meltdown and I just want to scream and throw the computer. I sometimes find myself talking out loud to myself as I type angrily. But in my head I am screaming insults at them except I leave them out when I make the post so it's like an edited version of it.
But since it's easier to misunderstand people online, I wonder if anyone else has this same problem online and how often?