Hi, my name is Thomas.
I did an intro more than a year ago, but got back into the lurker role. Shame on me (not really, I just didn't feel for comment on stuff.)
I am a Linux user, a programmer, and I like my small portion of sci-fi -- particular Dr. Who and Star Trek. I am a cigar aficionado, love good brandy spirits (Scotch, Cognac, Calvados, Armagnac), and I am a big fan of "food candy" (olives, sundried tomatoes, pickled garlic, feta cheese, dried ham).
My taste of music is pretty corny: Downtempo Funk, Cool Jazz, Lounge Jazz, Bossa and Acid jazz. I know, most people call it elevator music, but I like it.
I am a pacifier user. I am not really AB and I don't do diapers. In my introduction I called myself a PL -- Paci Lover -- like DL, just pacifiers instead of diapers.
I used a pacifier at home until I was 5 years. Yes, that long. When my parents took my pacifier away, I was still allowed by my grandparents to have one at sleepovers until I was 8. Yes, eight! I bought one again when I was 13 years, and I don't think I have had breaks longer than two years without a pacifier.
I am married, and I have revealed this habit little by little. I have never covered it up, but I have avoided using the pacifier "in her face" and only talked about it, when the timing was there. She has gone from accepting it on an intellectual level to accepting it on a personal level. I love my wife, and I do not want to hurt her, and she loves me and is really tolerant to a long extent.
I love my life, I am now at a place where I accept myself as I am. [Favorite deity] is good, and I feel so blessed!