I'm asking this because I'm having a problem with it with my parents. I love them and vice versa, but there is always one particular subject that I will never, ever, forgive them on. I told my mom this and my dad this multiple times, that I will hold them accountable for it to the ends of time. It usually results me in immediately ignoring them and contemplating what I could have been.
Here's the question: If you love someone, but they've done you wrong in the past, would you consider yourself to be justified by holding a grudge out on them?
Edit: I'm writing a reply, thanks for your responses. I'll give context of my particular situation below in my reply.