Ok, So I've been a bit discreet, and a bit straight forward, but i'm trying to be as tactful about how i approach this in my life as i possibly can.
My theory is, in looking for a wife and trying to live as an Ab/Dl, that if my lifestyle is a "Turn Off" to her, then i should probably continue to look elsewhere (unless my relationship has gone really far already, at which point I will try and help her understand, and make some compromises myself).
I'm not expecting it to be a "Turn on" for a girl, I just hope to find somebody that wont be bothered by it. Someone that can say to themselves, 'he just has a different style of self expression, and i can respect that,' and possibly a girl that wouldn't be bothered my me wearing a diaper to bed at least on occasion.
What do you think about this idea? I know that some of you are in relationships where your spouse does or did feel disgust about Infantilism, and you would never give him/her up, however, if you were not in a serious relationship with anyone, would you place finding somebody who could be ok with it as a important priority?