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    Hi everyone

    Sorry i have not been posting at all recently, i have been going through a difficult time to say the least tbh. I have gotten stressed and depressed and have been having suicidal thoughts. I am autistic so find it very hard to cope with things and do to sixth form becoming very unsettled and my toddler life i got angry at a youth club i go to and have now been told i have to stop going so i am unable to see most of my friends for the time being.

    For me (as i'm sure it is for a lot of you too) being treated like a toddler is by far the best way of reducing and letting out stress, this used to be able to happpen but no longer can/does. can someone please give me some advice on what to do? i have mentioned it to many friends but i cannot ask them to treat me like a toddler. I have been to get professonal help but i just cant bring myself to say this too them, my parents do know but do not know how to help. Can someone please help me??? i am getting desperate and do not know where to turn.

    Stuart

    P.S. sorry if this sounds like a moan but really its a desperate plea for help because i am struggling very much so tbh.

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    Please, don't comite suicide, I know are unhappy now, but you never know the future, you are unhappy today, but later you can be happy.

    You have to put in your head the suicide it's definitive thing, when you are dead, you are dead, it's irreversibly. There are moments in life that are very depressive, and you know everything seems bad and dark, and the only thing that you wanna it's sleep, just sleep, sleep until the pain goes away.

    But in the most times, sunnys days will come. When I am depress, I trying to see how luck I am. I mean, I don't have any disease, I have all the sences, trying to see good things on your life, I know that this is cliche but is a good away to see the life. I mean, there people in this world that are in be completely paralyzed, not even able to move a finger, so try to see the goods things in your life, and see how luck you are.
    Last edited by Trevor; 25-Jul-2012 at 01:33. Reason: merging posts.

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    Trust me I really do not want to commit suicide but I have come very close and I'm worried that next time I stop thinking rationally I will because I feel like. I have no friends right now

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    I know it's hard for some autistic people to have or acquire friends, but I think you're going to need to try. Don't worry about finding people who would baby you, because those people are very rare. Just try to find someone that you have some things in common, and most importantly, someone you can talk to, and do some fun things with. At the same time, talk to your parents. Make an effort to keep them involved in your life on a daily basis. If you're having an especially bad day, let them know and talk about it.

    Maybe you could join a club or some activity group doing something you would enjoy. I enjoy riding my bike, so if I was in your position, I think I'd join a bike club where we go out riding. Eventually I would probably find some friends out of that group. I know that being autistic may make you seem a little different to others, but if you explain that, you might be surprised how accepting people can be. I'm a member of a church where we are very accepting of all kinds of people. I have a mens' singing group which I conduct, but when we get together for rehearsal, we have a great time, and talk about all sorts of things. It's as much a social group as it is a choir.

    I think you just have to find your niche. Don't give up and get your parents to help you. By all means, don't harm yourself. Life is to be lived and enjoyed. Please give it a chance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shtu123 View Post
    Hi everyone

    Sorry i have not been posting at all recently, i have been going through a difficult time to say the least tbh. I have gotten stressed and depressed and have been having suicidal thoughts. I am autistic so find it very hard to cope with things and do to sixth form becoming very unsettled and my toddler life i got angry at a youth club i go to and have now been told i have to stop going so i am unable to see most of my friends for the time being.

    For me (as i'm sure it is for a lot of you too) being treated like a toddler is by far the best way of reducing and letting out stress, this used to be able to happpen but no longer can/does. can someone please give me some advice on what to do? i have mentioned it to many friends but i cannot ask them to treat me like a toddler. I have been to get professonal help but i just cant bring myself to say this too them, my parents do know but do not know how to help. Can someone please help me??? i am getting desperate and do not know where to turn.

    Stuart

    P.S. sorry if this sounds like a moan but really its a desperate plea for help because i am struggling very much so tbh.
    So sorry to hear about your depression, Stuart.
    You need to go see a doctor ASAP.
    Depression robs you of the ability to think rationally .
    Its not an option,go speak to your parents and until you go to doctor,keep chatting he
    re.
    The imbalance of chemicals in your brain will be sorted as soon as you get your meds.
    Don't believe what you think right know,I know its hard but you will get through this and be happy again.
    Im routing for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dogboy View Post
    I know it's hard for some autistic people to have or acquire friends, but I think you're going to need to try. Don't worry about finding people who would baby you, because those people are very rare. Just try to find someone that you have some things in common, and most importantly, someone you can talk to, and do some fun things with. At the same time, talk to your parents. Make an effort to keep them involved in your life on a daily basis. If you're having an especially bad day, let them know and talk about it.

    Maybe you could join a club or some activity group doing something you would enjoy. I enjoy riding my bike, so if I was in your position, I think I'd join a bike club where we go out riding. Eventually I would probably find some friends out of that group. I know that being autistic may make you seem a little different to others, but if you explain that, you might be surprised how accepting people can be. I'm a member of a church where we are very accepting of all kinds of people. I have a mens' singing group which I conduct, but when we get together for rehearsal, we have a great time, and talk about all sorts of things. It's as much a social group as it is a choir.

    I think you just have to find your niche. Don't give up and get your parents to help you. By all means, don't harm yourself. Life is to be lived and enjoyed. Please give it a chance.
    I have plenty of friends that i have things in common with atm. the problem is they are all too busy too see me which just sucks because its left me feeling so so so lonely. I know i need to probably join another club and i am currently on the waiting list for one but its going to take time and i'm not sure i have that time :S I just need a friend that has the time to see me tbh :/
    Last edited by Trevor; 26-Jul-2012 at 03:08. Reason: removing auto-merged duplicate post.

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    check yourself into a mental hospital,,preferably a private one and tell them the truth...they will help you, plus the food is good and the beds are nice w/clean sheets, warm showers and loads of fun activities, The hardest part is telling your psychiatrist what is going on with you internally...but you can do it,,,suicide is no joke please get yourself safe.

    Quote Originally Posted by Shtu123 View Post
    Hi everyone

    Sorry i have not been posting at all recently, i have been going through a difficult time to say the least tbh. I have gotten stressed and depressed and have been having suicidal thoughts. I am autistic so find it very hard to cope with things and do to sixth form becoming very unsettled and my toddler life i got angry at a youth club i go to and have now been told i have to stop going so i am unable to see most of my friends for the time being.

    For me (as i'm sure it is for a lot of you too) being treated like a toddler is by far the best way of reducing and letting out stress, this used to be able to happpen but no longer can/does. can someone please give me some advice on what to do? i have mentioned it to many friends but i cannot ask them to treat me like a toddler. I have been to get professonal help but i just cant bring myself to say this too them, my parents do know but do not know how to help. Can someone please help me??? i am getting desperate and do not know where to turn.

    Stuart

    P.S. sorry if this sounds like a moan but really its a desperate plea for help because i am struggling very much so tbh.

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    I feel for you shtu123. I've been there and it is not a pleasant place to be or feel.

    My advice to you is to seek help, either from a doctor or therapist. Expressing The way you feel and letting out some of your feelings may help. Keeping your emotions to yourself can cause lots of stress.

    Being autistic too, i know how difficult it can be to make new friends. I only have a couple I consider true friends, although they live all over the place so it's hard for me to socialise with them.

    Maybe it would be wise to join a charity group. That's what I did. You meet new people and help those less fortunate than you. Anything to put your mind away from your suicidal thoughts.

    We are always here to talk. I have found ADISC to be a wonderful community. Some people on here have become my best friends and always give good advice. I'm always open to talk to new people.

    Finally, DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE. I came close but things will get better. It may not be a fast process, but it does get better

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