okay, so I know that a lot of guys saw this title and clicked on it right away, so you can give your input too, but I really want some input from the ladies.
If a girl tells you (via txt msg) that you're "sweet and charming," can that mean she likes you or that she's just being nice and is a good friend?
Let me backup for some info on this. Almost 5 years ago, I met this girl the first day of my freshman year at high school. I was blown away. Now, I'm a nerdy guy, and I knew I was really awkward, so I kinda kept my distance to prevent ruining future chances.
I did get to talk to her at social events and sporting events at school throughout the years and the more I get to know her, the more I can't stop thinking about her.
In the last week of my senior year, I decided I would tell her, so I wrote her a heart-felt note (like 2 pages long) and wrote and recorded the worst song in the world for her and gave it to her. She said it was the sweetest thing anyone ever told her, but she didn't feel the same. Granted, she didn't know me too well. I thought the game was over there.
But then, after that, during summer last year, we hung out more. She invited me to her canbin with some other friends, and we had a lot of fun. It wasn't awkward at all.
She went to a college 8 hours from mine. we both were in separate relationships for 2 months, but failed. I still really like her, and I just had an awesome weekend at her cottage. She txted me later saying that her parents LOVE me and when I asked what she thought, she said I was sweet and charming. She's really nice to everyone, so idk if she's just being nice or if she likes me.
Idk if anyone read all that, but what do you guys think. Does she like me? I'm probably going to talk to her as soon as I can in person. I think this stuff shouldn't stay in txts.