Well, after quite a long time of dragging my feet, I fianlly told my husband my ABDL secret I posted on here a few months ago a thread asking for everyone's advice about how to tell my husband I was ABDL. I recieved a great amount of advice and kept thinking that it would go good if I told but I just couldnt bring myself to do it. I couldnt get past the fact that if it went badly it would always be there as a strain on our relationship and it didnt seem the potentinal gains were more than the potentinal losses. So I made up in my mind to just keep it to myself.
Well, a few weeks ago we were on vacation and after listening to a preacher speak my husband wanted to talk to me about something he had kept from me. He told me something that he hadnt told anyone else and he was afraid that I would be mad/ hold it against him, but I reassured him it was ok and that I didnt think less of him. I thought about telling him my secret, but I backed out. The next day he told me that he was so glad that he didnt have anymore secrets anymore, that I knew everything about him. I then felt really guilty because I still did have secrets. All day I thought about telling him and made up my mind to finally tell him. As we drove back to our hotel from a concert I told him I was glad he shared his secrets but that I still had something I hadnt told him. He asked what and I told him, "You know how I have always had bladder problems and I told you it made me a little a werid about some stuff....well, one of those things is that I.....like to wear diapers" I blurted it out quick and couldnt look at him. He just kinda laughed and said "Really? Diapers?" He was really good about it! I told him I wasnt the only one like this and he said he knew some people liked to act like babies. He didnt ask alot of questions but I knew that he was ok with it because he was making diaper jokes within the hour (he's a big joker) I am still kind of amazed that I actually told him and he doesnt care at all. I'm taking all my cues from him, not wanting to presure him and ruin it. I wear around him but dont let me him unless he askes or it comes up and I try to not use my pacifier around him too much (unless he tells me to get if of course ) He hasnt seen me in a diaper yet and he wont unless he askes; it will be awhile before I broach the subject of role play and such. He thinks its cute and calls me his 'big baby'. Its a great feeling to have someone know the truth and accpet you for who you are. Overall he seemed not to surprised.....of course he knew most of it already except the diapers and baby stuff. Just really happy about it wanted to share