I have had this idea for a while now. I have begun to think sexual preference in gender is a fetish. The thought of living the rest of you life with somebdoy doesn't require a gender, but rather a desire to love and be happy with that person. Having sexual relations with somebdoy requires an attraction, which I believe is similar to our attraction to diapers The attraction to a sex seems more like a fetish to me. Thoughts? Anybody have a better explanation?