i dont mean to sound like im after pity cuz im not, and it would just be nice to have some feedback so be nice and i might not be mean.
my dad, since i can remember, has been sort of tyrannical. he thinks that me and my sister shouldnt do things if theyre not productive or beneficial, and doesnt seem to get the concept of entertainment.
also, he doesnt seem to get that though it seems like im constantly texting, im not just talking to just one person, but rather a bunch of different people at the same time, and he'll be all like 'dont be a slave to the phone' and i'll point out that when he was my age he didnt have one so how would he know what its like. this just makes him mad and he'll say something about how im biting the hand thats feeding me and how he's the one who's paying for it so he can take it away just as easy.
when theres school he's always going to the website to check my grades, and he'll give monologues about how my (younger) sister has straight As and why cant i be more like her. and now that school's out he hasnt stopped. he'll keep going on and on about poor work ethic and says that i didnt work hard during the year and still arent working hard now. it makes me so angry to listen to him talk about how im not good enough or rhetorical questions of why cant i be better like my sister or some other shit. and whenever i say something back, just standing up for myself, i may go a bit too far and say something equally not-good and he will say like he's said many times "you make us (mom and dad) feel so warm and fuzzy when you say these things, it makes us want you to be here forever" he's being sarcastic obviously, and its annoying, condescending, and (he's told me) he's counting down the days till im 18, when im outta here.
well, that makes TWO of us!
what gives?! whats his problem? am i to blame for this? has anybody else had troubles with their dad? am I in the wrong for feeling this way?