Well I'm not sure if I've done this or not, but here goes:
It looks like I may be the oldest of the bunch, as my physical age is 55 (double nickel) I've been an ab for most of my life - started when I was 8 yrs old, out of jealousy in seeing other toddlers running around in their cloth diapers up to age 6 yrs old; out of being the youngest of the family - called the "baby of the family". It has stuck; for comfort - I was physically and emotionally abused by my mother basically for messing accidents I had in my underwear clear up to the age of 15. My mother was told I was doing it because I was getting back at her - anger or something. But that wasn't true.
I live alone now in Oregon. I've been married twice, the last one was a bomb even tho I thought I had found a mommy. But I don't want to dwell on that.
I've hosted many a munches/get togethers with other ab/dl I've been friends to ab/tb/dl of all ages and am usually disgreet in everyway trying to be a friend and mentor.
That's why I've joined here. I know I can contribute and share experiences of what it's like to be an ab at my age. Look forward to meeting many of you and hearing what you have to say.