I just figured something out this morning!
I'm more scared and embarrassed when i wake up in a wet bed, then I am if I wear a diaper.
I feel so safe in my diapers!
What I am trying to say is, if you wet the bed and want to/need to wear a diaper, its okay just do it otherwise you will feel worse if you woke up in soaking wet clothes and sheets!
Plus diapers are super comfortable, the more bulk the better because there is more padding for bigger accidents. And also it's easier to take care of a wet diaper then it is to take care of all your sheets and clothes. So......