Thanks for all of your posts. This seems like a very welcoming site. I recently returned to the life (DL) after about a 6-year hiatus. During that six years, I got married and adopted my wife's two sons.
During a moment of high stress, I told my wife of my...proclivities. She was very encouraging and supportive. My first new suit was an Abina X4. What an advancement! My second was an Attends Breathable crapfest (the product, not what I did) Just yesterday I received some Dry 24/7s. I'll have to review them all in depth sometime.
I'm also a black dude. Any others around? It's occurred to me, I haven't seen or heard from any others with this type of love.
Hang in there!