I have a friend, well scratch that, a person I know. We go way back to when I was in elementary school. He's always had a sadistic sense of humor, and he's always out to be on top and control everything. Even as a child he was very aggressive and easily angered. He would always try to strangle his older brother, and fight nonstop with him. Now flash forward to today, this guy went to my work (I work for a farmer stacking hay) and he told my boss that I didn't want to do this job anymore and that he shouldn't call me anymore. I heard that straight from my bosses mouth when I went there today.
Let's get something straight, I love my job, sure it's like chewing nails, but it gives me exercise and money, what's better than getting paid to workout. Now the reason I am calling him a sociopath is not only because of his personality and tendencies of resorting to pure hatred and anger when something doesn't go his way, but his mother suffers from depression and paranoia, which she is medicated for heavily.
Now this guy has been smoking weed since he was 12, but at that young of an age it can become a problem through mental addiction. He can't go a day without a dimebag. I am starting to believe that all that ganja has pushed him over the edge and gave him an early onset of paranoia, that mixed with his sociopathic behavior is not a good combination.
My question to all of you is what do I do? I can't get rid of him because he works with me. The only thing I can think of is shoving my steel toed boots up his a**, and putting him in his place for once in his life.
Also what really grinds his gears about me is the fact that I'm always calm, even when he tries to choke me, I just wrap my hand around his wrist, push as hard as I can on the vain, and tell him, "think about this."