I have noticed that while incontinence may be accepted, liking your diapers isn't accepted. Why is that? Are incontinent people or people who wet their beds or need to wear them at times supposed to be unhappy about their problem and be all miserable about it rather than accept it? They do keep their pants dry and their beds dry so of course there be a reason why to like them.
Just like I liked wearing pads when I get my period because it kept the blood off my clothes and kept me clean. I didn't mind getting my periods either because I was on birth control so it wasn't very heavy and I didn't get cramps. I wonder if liking to wear pads is bad? If my period were to be heavy, I would want to wear pull ups for security and would rather be bloody messy in them than in my underwear and I would like wearing them too because f the security feeling. So if I were incontinent and had to wear them and I wasn't into diapers before then, I could see myself liking them because they keep my pants dry and save me from having accidents on the floor or furniture and that be if I had good diapers and they didn't leak often and my incontinence wasn't a problem just like my period was not a problem when I was on birth control. Would I call myself a DL over this? Maybe if I knew I would keep on wearing them if I got bladder control back. If not, then no I wouldn't consider myself one. Some incontinent people consider themselves a DL and some of them do not even if they do like their diapers. I think it's just up to the person to decide if they are or not.
Is accepting your diapers a crime too? Must be because of the way incontinent people have been treated in the Depends community by incontinent people who don't like their problem.