Just to note, I did check over the other threads mentions airports and diapers, but I didn't find anything directly to answer my question.
I'm leaving for my first flight in a few days, and to be honest, I'm nervous to all heck. Like I mentioned above, I did look around instantly to see if anyone else had the same thought as me while traveling: bring diapers with you. While this is for part pleasure, this is also for a recent medical complication that involves a slight 'backdoor problem', not incontinence but something close to that effect.
When I get to the airport, I am bringing solely carry-on. I am traveling with my long term boyfriend, who knows all about my AB/DLisms, but also with my grandparents, who are completely unknown to any of this. I'd rather not have them aware of my condition, pleasure or need. My question is this: upon arrival, can I outright ask to be screened privately right off the bat? Or will this more likely set off warning signals? I will not step into a scanner, and I will not be wearing into the airport, I simply do not want my grandparents seeing my carry-on extras.