I just found out that Overstock.com has a section for incontinence. I go to that site all the time and never thought to look for this stuff there!
Medium Attends, case of 96, $44.99
Medium Attends, case of 88, $54.99
Large Attends, case of 72, $39.99
M/L Molicare, case of 56, $72
1. I believe their prices vary on the quantity because of the different suppliers they get from. One Attends supplier might be $x.xx, one supplier might be $x.xx.
2. I have no idea if their shipping is discreet - I have ordered several non-diaper purchases in the past and they always came in a big "overstock.com" brand box. However, since they do get their items from different suppliers, I can't guarantee they will all be discreet!