I'll be honest - for me, they're sexy. Though I'm still SORT of going through those stupid binge/purge cycles, I've finally gotten to the point where I quit purging, and just put it out of sight until my next wave of interest comes in.
I've noticed though, that the further I get away from binge/purge cycles, the less "sexy" they are for me and they become more just regular comfort. I still feel my libido ramp up when I think of wearing them, but I also think of wearing them now to relax when I feel stressed or keyed up. This never used to be the case.
Has your use of or need for diapers changed over time? Started one way then gone to another; or stayed the same? Has the "intensity" worn off? Currently, do you wear less or more frequently compared to when you first had regular uninterrupted diaper-time?
PS: I hope this topic is acceptable, my apologies if it's out of line.