The previous massage thread is closed and i really wanted to add my two cents since there were so many differsnt opinions in the last one. I think getting a massage in a diaper is perfectly fine with or without tellling the massause ahead of time. I get them all the time in just a diaper and there is nothing more relaxing! Telling the massause is up to you but i give them a heads up most of the time, not always though. Not one of hem has ever said anything when i did 't mention it. I go to the same one most of the time and she doesn't even mention it anymore. I don't have a worry in the world when i'm lying there just in my diaper being massaged head to toe!