Came across a link to this short little article article while wandering around the Internet and I thought it could be of some interest. I don't see that the author has any special credentials but I don't think that's necessarily required. What encouraged me most was that something like this appeared outside a fetish setting. I thought the comments were informative as well.
Comments on the article or any other observations on how discreet weirdness might be getting more positively accepted are welcome.