I am looking for some advice. My mom knows that I am AB and she actually really hates it and tells me I have a mental problem. I am trying to work up the courage to talk to her about backing off. She always gets upset with me that I have not called the psychologist or as she calls it "the baby doctor". I am having a hard time getting up the courage to talk to her about all this. I want to tell her that there is no harm in being AB and that it is very common for people in my situation to turn to ABDL. I want to tell her that she needs to realize I am an adult and that this is my choice and that she has no say in it. I am 25 years old and she needs to let go of the Idea that she can control my decisions. I am not sure how to approch her. I did tell her I would go see the psychologist but she bugs me every single day about calling and setting up an appointment. I am just at a loss of how to handle her and really could use some advice or encouragement.