I need some advice what to do about this situation...
As I am aware that my fiancee prohibits me from wearing diapers at the night time. At first, I was okay with it, but eventually I start to miss wearing it at the night time and want to sleep in it and thought it would help me sleep better. So we got into mild arguments about this and I tried to convince her to let me wear it at the night time... she won't budge.
Her concerns/believing if she allows me to wear at the night time:
-it will cause me wanting to wear every night then eventually 24/7
-losing my bladder control at the night time (considering I have long history with bedwetting)
-eventually it will cause to lose daytime bladder control
-there are few incidents when I was out (diaperless) and suddenly I realize I have to go to bathroom and almost lose it... not sure if its directly related to this since it's extremely rare. This happened after I wear diapers nightly for a week or so
-Increase the chances to get rashes/infections despite I have cloth diaper, this never proven on me just yet
So... is it just me that I am being bit selfish that I want to wear diapers at the night time despite her concerns or what should I do? I told her if those problem arises, I will deal with it but she still won't let me wear it at night time.
She even confessed that she will never understand why I like to wear diapers. She tried to support me for this just because for my happiness sake. Due to her growing intolerance with me wearing diapers, I became uncomfortable wearing it around her now. I only wear it whenever she isn't home. I have no intentions to put her in negative light or anything like that... she's wonderful... just that she seem growing tiresome of the my whole DL side in recent months and cause some minor tensions.