Hi, I'm Paul (sorry, cybername, but it'll have to do!)
I have received such encouragement after enrolling on this friendly site (including a welcome message from Moo, the administrator) that I thought I must give something of an introduction, despite general shyness about a sensitive side of me seldom revealed to anyone! Here are some snippets of my interest. .
When I was about 10 my family gave lodging to a boy of my age who wet the bed quite frequently. The heavy religious atmosphere generated by my mother meant that we boys were discouraged from even mentioning 'down there' let alone discussing topics. The boy had other issues and, beyond a childish friendship, we were not close. I was secretly turned on by his problem, however, and in adolescence would have liked to renew contact, but this was impossible. I have always had sympathy for any who find it difficult to cope with incontinence, and try to show full understanding. .
Meantime, in the relaxed countryside atmosphere when we swam in the river I would change well away from everybody, and secretly wet my comfortable swimsuit while it was still dry, then plunge in the water before anyone noticed. . .
I upgraded this in later schooldays when, now mainly free of religion, sometimes I would camp on a section of river alone. On my first such expedition I improvised a fantastic diaper:- two pairs of briefs, two pairs of boxers, swimming trunks, swimming shorts and all held in tight by an old pair of school shorts. On the way to the site I drank as many litres of water as I could hold. I was amazed that, despite that, I was unable to start wetting immediately, and when I did, the pleasure was immense. . .
Much later, I plucked up courage to order a pack of diapers. Found using them a great pleasure. Later bought an excellent plastic undersheet, and discovered the excitement of using a diaper in bed!. . .
I live a full life, and cannot share this interest with my partner. I love swimming in company, and do a lot of choral singing. I like attending to the domestic side of our establishment, especially the garden, and am lucky to enjoy much travel.
I note the warnings given on the Topix Bedwetting Forum about how difficult it is to recover from 'regression', so, much as I would like to wet in my sleep, have resisted temptation to go too far. The fetish remains an important, but occasional indulgence.
Well, that's my introduction. Thanks for reading and for the welcome. It's time I shut up and let someone else have a go!