I am new to using diapers, and so far I have been using XL Goodnights. I love that they are a close fit (almost too tight though) and are not noticable. However they are only good for one pee and half the time they leak (very strong flow ). I need something better. I cant get any Bambinos, though I would love to- dont want to get caught. How are adult diapers? I want something that doesnt feel like an 'old lady' diaper, I would like something with a youthful feel. I usually shop at Kroger which has Depends and Kroger brand. What are your opninons on these brands? I would like a close fit, and defintly HIGH absorbabncy. What size should I get? I am about 125lbs and 5'5''.