IC vs. ABDL
Hi everyone! So I have some questions, because I don't know how to tread around the subject. I am a DL and other than wanting to wear diapers, I have no medical reason to do so. But the question is, how do people with IC feel about people who are AB or DL?!? *
I ask this because I for the first time talked about diapers to someone I met online who is IC. He was crazy sweet to me and asked me to come over so I could get padded up. I was in a new city, and well, it was exactly what I needed at that moment. I went and got padded up and it was great, but because he needed to work we talked for literally 3 minutes! *But I didn't know how to respond to him, I didn't know how to ask questions about his relationship to diapers or IC or AB or DL. I couldn't formulate the questions to ask. *And to that same point i couldn't figure out how to talk about anything else since i couldn't talk to him about that. *Now maybe I am wrong, but if someone is wearing a diaper, and you know it, it's like the big elephant in the room correct? There are lots of questions! From someone who doesn't wear diapers there is the why? Is something wrong with you? And I'm guessing the occasional person who would think anyone who wears a diaper is a pervert. But from the side of the fence where people have to wear diapers and the other side where they just want to but don't need to, where is the gate? Do IC people have problems with ABDL people? I'm sure some do because not everyone feels the same about everything in this world! I mean look at politics! But is there an animosity at all towards the ABDL community?
I'm just interested because I love all people! I hold no animosity towards anyone! If you have a medical condition I feel sad for your reality, but enjoy the person it makes you. It's not your fault you have IC, it's not my sisters fault she had cancer, it's not my fault that I am on most perceived notions completely healthy (which I have always wished I wasn't, but that's a different thread). I want to understand people. I really would love to be accepted in all communities but because I have a DL desire, I feel that I would love to make friends with people who like them too, and an IC person in my mind is so cool! I have so much respect for what you all go through! So I think that sums up what I am after! I don't really know where to go from here. So I'll just see what any of you all say! It's nice to know there is a community out there! Been searching for this for YEARS!*
Peace! Love! Joy!
P.S. sorry if there is already a thread for this, don't know how to use the site entirely yet! Especially from my phone which is all I have at the moment!